There most be clear consent to be tied up. ![]() With bondage, there is a clear and physical hand over of power at the outset. This high level of trust is requires from every D/s power exchange, as, for example, allowing someone to tie you is also giving a very deep level of control to the dominant. Subspace Dangers?Ī submissive entering subspace is giving a very deep level of control over them to their dominant, so it is clear there must be a high level of trust. The submissive can start to habitually undertake activities that would be outside the ‘non-subspace limits’, which means the submissive is now relying on subspace to negotiate their scenes. ![]() The submissive becomes trained to drop more quickly and deeper into subspace by the reward of the freedom the feel in subspace.īut as they become trained to drop into subspace, their pain tolerance increases. Subspace also is an escape from pressures of reality, and perhaps more importantly from the ‘contradictory pain’ of the ‘fine line between pleasure and pain’ during BDSM. At the same time, the addiction can make reality a bigger problem, increasing the need for escape. Many addictions represent escapes from the pressures of reality. On the same basis, an addiction to subspace would be an inability to manage submission habits, as subspace is a consequence of intense submission.Ī state of alcohol intoxication leads to freedom from stress and isolation from pain, the very same symptoms observed with subspace. DBSM related topics can still be a little taboo.Ĭonsider a comparison with being addicted to alcohol, defined here as the inability to manage drinking habits. Clearly there are a number of people who think subspace is addictive, but i have not uncovered any clinical work, so this could be just opinion, or it could be simply an under-researched area. (follow the link, and search the page for ‘addict’). Consider again the same post i quoted before, and although the author of the post does not mention addiction, about six people commenting on the post stated they felt it was addictive. A dependency or an addiction? Perhaps it depends on the individual. The definition of addiction is complex, with some drugs, sex, and other ‘addictions’ being accepted by some experts, labelled merely a ‘dependency’ by others, and the boundary between a dependency and an addiction is a grey area. These three points i have covered to some extent in my previous post on subspace, and i will review each of these three points again later in this post, but as these points are already covered by others in many discussions so some people will not need more on that background, i wish to first discuss a point i have seen less on, and that is ‘subspace addiction’ Subspace Addiction extremely suggestible in many ways like being hypnotised.extremely vulnerable and incapable of saying ‘no’ (as if drugged with a form of date rape drug).I have previously posted about subspace, and I feel the more i learn, the greater the significance i feel needs to be given to the topic of subspace.įor a Domme/Dom, having their ‘other’ (sub/slave/etc) deep in subspace, means their ‘other’ has effectively lost the ability to say ‘no’ to them, and the Domme/Dom has the the power to have their ‘other’ do almost anything they wish or give them almost anything they wish.įrom my own experiences, and confirmed from the sources i will link to here to be a similar experience for many others, subspace is a delicious feeling, but can have the person experiencing subspace be ![]() Background Notes: The Subspace Experience.
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